Tuesday, February 18, 2014

How Good Dogs Go To Heaven

PetlifeRadio.com – It’s A Doggy Dog World
Liz Palika, Petra Burke & Kate Abott


Click here:  The End of Our Dogs Lives

The How Book of Dogs
Liz Palika

This week I took an opportunity to listen to a podcast about "The End Days of Our Dogs Lives" while surfing through Itunes.  The podcast is sponsored by Petlife Radio.com “It’s a Doggy Dog World” by Liz Palika.  Everything a dog owner would need to know about caring for their dog is available on this radio podcast program.  Personally, I found this show entertaining, personal, transparent, and serious.  The host; Liz Palika is a wealth of knowledge & experience about dogs.  Also, I liked her stories regarding dogs and found her program to be real, honest, and filled with true life humor.

What is your doggy philosophy on life?  Have ever thought about the day your loving dog or pet grows old and may need to be euthanized?  Real life altering questions we all must consider at some point in their short future.  What is euthanasia?  Some folks believe dogs should die naturally, regardless of how much they suffer.  Personally, I am not one who believes this.  Questions you may have about your dog's life or death issue may be:

o   Is your dog having more bad days than good days?
o   Is the quality of life for your pet getting better or worse?
o   How uncomfortable or unhappy are they?
o   Is the joy of being a dog and the job they perform, now a burden?
o   Is the dog in pain (medicated)?

Liz, along with her two guests; Petra Burke & Kate Abott told us a story about her Velcro Dog unable to follow her from room to room when she conducted simple house chores around her home; “I can’t follow you into the next room like I used to do; I'm so sorry?"

Therefore, a decision to euthanize a family pet member is always difficult.  It is a decision that should be discussed with your spouse, and other family members, because the sudden absence of a family member will likely have traumatizing psychological and emotional effects on other personalities who live in your home, including the cat.  Everyone should have a chance to say, “Good-bye!”  Also, Liz encourages folks to consider veterinarian policies when putting down a family pet.  Some vets allow family members to be present for the procedure, others do not.  In either case, grieving the death of a dog or cat is real, regardless if it is sudden or a long process.  As I have always believed, our dogs are wonderful gifts and their lives with us are just on lease.  

If it be possible, one can plan ahead by understanding the best options for how your dog should be put to sleep may be a very good way to dealing with one’s ultimate grief.  Liz also talks about weighing options before settling on the decision to euthanize.  Her best advice on the subject is to gain knowledge by understanding your process on dealing with loss by help others in their grieving processes, as well.  The panel suggested collecting artifacts such as paw impressions, the dog’s collar, identification tags, photos, videos, and even fur while they are with you as a way of preserving their memories which are helpful in preparing us during times of our grieving.  How do you deal with your grief?

The 5 Stages of Grief
o   Denial
o   Anger
o   Bargaining
o   Depression
o   Acceptance

Lastly, it is important to choose whom you talk with about death of a family pet.  Not everyone will understand what you are going through.  Liz Palika encourages folks to call grief counselors at:

University of Davis Pet Loss Hospital
o   1 (800) 565-1526
o   1 (530) 752-3602

Cornell University Pet Hotline
o   1 (607) 253-3932
What are your thoughts on the topic?
The End of Our Dogs Lives

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